reflections of the past

 
Why do I spend so much time reflecting on my past and not being able "let go, move on,  go forward,"...because, everything I have experienced in this life makes me who I am....which is...

alone

cynical

pensive

non-trusting

distant

kind

generous

caring

intuitive

brave

serious

introvert

sarcastic

hurt

depressed

blue

anxious

unsettled

loving

good

wounded

resilient

sad

independent

giving

gentle

angry

intentional

blessed

defiant

dependable

weepy

sensitive

grateful

open

hurt

damaged

and….

and so much more

love and light to you

sunday solitude

far above the golden valley...

University of Kansas Campanile

words

Words, once they are said can never be taken back, no matter how much you apologize and try to explain yourself, even if the receiver accepts your apology they are forever between you. 

Social media can misconstrue the tone of your words and are easily translated into something you never even thought of expressing.  The hurt is then there, without explanation.

We have all said things we have regretted in the heat of the moment or in anger and then wish we hadn't. I know I will try to hold my words until I am sure, so that they cannot ruin a friendship if they are angry thoughts or resentment.

Peace and Blessings